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Old Dec 13, 2024, 10:43 AM
RDMercer RDMercer is offline
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Originally Posted by FoughtTooLong View Post
Clearly I’m in the minority here but I don’t always endorse leaving. I’ve seen people end relationships for the wrong reasons, then end up bitter and alone. It happens.
It's not only that.

To be fair... I haven't read the whole thread.

I spent years in self-examination trying to make things work. I think deep, meaningful self-examination is important prior to deciding to leave.

A person can be deeply unhappy in a marriage, but what if that unhappiness is not related to the marriage, but resides in them.

I also think there are situations where, due to basic needs (shelter, food, medical aid) a person is safer to remain in an unhappy relationship.


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Thanks for this!
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