I am not one for symbolic gestures or whatever -but I did swear a lot about western medicine and its horrors when my person was dying. I mostly just ranted about it -I didn't really want or need to have the therapist do anything. After she died, I was mostly only angry at what she had suffered at their hands and sad because I missed her. There was no point in talking about the sadness -talking was not useful for me. It just faded some and life came back in so I could slowly start paying attention to other things which also lessened it. I don't note her death day or funeral date - I know about when but I think of her multiple times a day still but not with grief - I remember funny things and such.