Francis is a big boi now and is smelling like a male, he tries to beat up Jimi in a macho way, LoL. Guess who is getting neutered? I've been through this with other cats and I expect him to play nicer after his nuts are gone. Jimi shows himself to my friend now, he comes and stares at her with big eyes. With me, when i reach out my finger, he is curious and comes and puts his nose to it. I am so happy, he touches me and is fine.

I hope everyone of you that struggles, treat yourself with the same kindness I have shown my cat, things can be good.