I gave so much of myself to my spouse and to my family that I lost myself. A guy at work asked, "What do you like to do outside of work?" and I couldn't answer him, because I just didn't know.

Once you start finding yourself, you'll start liking yourself more.

@ArmorPlate108 told me setting boundaries is finding the edges of yourself.

I had to start from the edges.... I had to ask myself, "What are things that I absolutely can't tolerate in my life or among the people around me?"

Then I started recognizing my values more.

Then I started recognizing the things I enjoyed more.

Does that help any?

RDMercer