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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
Do you feel like you want the check-ins, like it would be helpful for you? Maybe you could decide to have a couple, then see how you feel after that? Or another option is, if he's open to this, give it a bit of time, like a few weeks or a month, then see what you feel like doing. If you think it will be more painful to see him virtually in the new setting vs. not see him at all.
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This is completely uncharted territory for me and I have no idea what I want to do regarding contact after he's moved. I'm also not really sure what he's actually offering and I'm not sure he knows either. One thing he mentioned was a check-in a couple of months from now. What if I'm doing poorly though? Does he really want to know that?