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Originally Posted by 3rd rock
snip: I believe this is because I've started chatting online for a few months now with a woman. It may lead to nothing, but we're going to just chat like this for a while and see where it takes us. We check in with each other every day, and sometimes spend extended periods chatting. We've even shared intimate details about ourselves as well as pictures and voice chatting. This is probably stupid of me, but I'm already starting to daydream about meeting her. It almost feels like I'm developing a bit of a crush on her, which I've never done online before. I'm apprehensive about it, but I also hope for it.
And then I realize that I'm getting way too far of myself, and I have to remind It's just whenever I feel good about something like this, it's always been immediately followed by heartbreak.
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Ah, Rock I had a similar experience recently but it’s not to jinx you!
I was talking to a man online about a year and we had so much in common. He seemed so sincere and when I found out we live in the same state and region, I daydreamed about meeting him one day. We never talked on the phone and didn’t know what the other looked like. Yet I still thought I made a real friend, possibly a real life one.
Then he stopped responding and deleted his account. No closure or proper goodbye or anything.
It was like a death, as it took me a couple of months to process that he did that. And this from someone who said people ghost him. Then he turns around and does it to ME. I was so hurt and shocked. I finally deleted all his messages.
I certainly hope this works out for you.
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