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Originally Posted by divine1966
Honestly I think if a couple isn’t able to have their own place (not talking owning, ok to rent), they should just date. No need to live together and move in with parents.
I’d say household chores you describe are just normal things people do. You don’t do it for her. You live there so washing dishes and cooking for yourself and your boyfriend (sometimes? I’d say it should be all the time). is a bare minimum.
Are you two married? It sounds that you two are not independent yet and are depending on your parents. So you living with your parents and him with his is very appropriate. When you two can manage on your own, then live together
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Hi! Thank you for your reply. Your response did not address my issues and concerns. My partner and I did live together for 3 years before our rental cost increased by so much, that it couldn’t be justified as rent, and we would rather use that money for our own mortgage. , so we then decided to move in with his mum to save up for our own place. We are not dependent on his mother or my family, as we both work full time and he pays for her bills and I have my own set of bills to pay for. Thank you for your opinion on my relationship, but it was not what I asked for. People’s opinions on relationships differ widely and therefore in this context is entirely useless to me.