I just told her that I love her, and she did not respond in kind. She just said 'I'm rather fond of you,' among other things. I don't know what I expected, but I feel stupid for having said it and for having the feelings that I feel. I also feel wounded by it. I'm really stupid for feeling the way I do because I should be able to control my feelings more because I'm an adult in my late-30s. I just don't know what to do.