
Dec 25, 2024, 05:31 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,073
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Originally Posted by cutman2000
I played all styles, 50s, 60s, 70s 80s cover tunes in a band when I was younger. I once met and recorded with the late Jani Lane(Warrant).
I started going to a local music academy after my wife left the second time. I was in a classical piano class. The instructor and I were both surprised at my progress after just a few weeks. After sessions we used to talk about our lives. She had previously gone through a divorced and I was able to open up to her. She was very transparent. I miss her.
I love golf. I'm not like a pro but I like it and I'm pretty good at it on a local competitor level. I was practicing(with a swing coach) about 2-3 days a week also, and playing local courses to get my handicap established to start playing local tournaments but stopped everything when she came home.
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If you truly enjoyed these things, start doing them again. Never stop doing good healthy things you enjoy in life because of "someone else". That is when you end up losing your own identity.
I ended up finally being able to have a similar country farm life to what I had fallen in love with when I was 8 years old when I finally left my bad marriage. To busy making my new life work & enjoying it to even look back & miss him or anything I walked away from. 17 years later, I love my alone life (with my furbabies & new friends) even better than when I first moved here. It is all about mindset & knowing & BELIEVING how much better off you truly are without them.
Over the 17 years & divorce he just kept proving how much better off I am without him even from 2100 miles away
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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