Stodog congratulations on your union regardless of your reasons for entering into that union. For what it’s worth-I never wore my wedding band. Eventually the engagement ring and wedding band went missing in a move about 10 years ago but even when I had them I barely wore them. The ring is simply symbolic and part of the formality. Before I moved I lived next door to a very lovely same-sex couple. Seriously they were the best neighbors ever and I miss them. Anyway she was public defender and she only wore her ring when she had to be in court because she wanted to seem relatable to her clients.