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Originally Posted by Jersey 4
Stodog congratulations on your union regardless of your reasons for entering into that union. For what it’s worth-I never wore my wedding band. Eventually the engagement ring and wedding band went missing in a move about 10 years ago but even when I had them I barely wore them. The ring is simply symbolic and part of the formality. Before I moved I lived next door to a very lovely same-sex couple. Seriously they were the best neighbors ever and I miss them. Anyway she was public defender and she only wore her ring when she had to be in court because she wanted to seem relatable to her clients.
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Sorry yours got lost. I don't mind the idea of wearing one - just that I wish it would hurry up and just become not unusual feeling. I have tried wearing it on my right hand and it feels less unusual there but I hit more stuff with it. I knew several women who wore rings when seeing clients regardless of orientation or marital status. One common ploy amongst clients was to try and hit on their female pd. A client once asked me why I always acted like a man because I didn't ask about his feelings (I did not do trial work and his feelings were completely irrelevant to my job).
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