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Old Dec 28, 2024, 02:21 PM
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A long time ago, a good number of them betrayed me when I was in a vulnerable state.
By now it would be pointless bringing it up & stirring the pot being that it was "a long time ago". No one probably remembers the incedent. That is like bringing up something that happened "a long time ago" in a marriage. The point of doing it would be lost & might more be taken as you trying to stir up trouble.

Best to leave it in the past. Actions speak louder than words. If their actions are no longer like they were....just leave it, be cautious of a situation like that ever happening again & handle it in a better way if it does & if not, enjoy the people on a level where YOU FEEL THE MOST COMFORTABLE. Bringing up past from a "long time ago" usually only causes trouble
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