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Old Dec 29, 2024, 01:47 PM
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I'm so sorry, NP.

Speaking your truth - 'Expressing [your] feelings' - is not holding him hostage.
Knowing that doing so will have no impact on his plans must be excruciating.

Eight and a half years is a very long time to put your trust in someone.

I hope you can give yourself grace to feel your feelings, and treat yourself tenderly in the days ahead.

Hugs if wanted,

Lost
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Thanks for this!
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