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It's okay to grieve the loss of part of ourselves. Though I've never had to deal with the loss of an alter (or even having one in the first place), I've definitely lost certain aspects of who I used to be, aspects that made my life much more tolerable. I think it's nagtural for people to grieve losing certain parts of themselves or aspects of their lives.
Keep working with your T; hopefully you'll find a way to manage the pain without displacing it onto an alter.
Take care, and pm me if you need anything,
 
J
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"One by one, as they march, our comrades vanish from our sight, seized by the silent orders of omnipotent death. Very brief is the time in which we can help them, in which their happiness or misery is decided. Be it ours to shed sunshine on their path, to lighten their sorrows by the balm of sympathy, to give them the pure joy of a never-tiring affection, to stregthen failing courage, to instill faith in hours of despair."
-Bertrand Russell
With love and hope,
<~/J\~>
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