I think you're on the right track in starting this topic. I also think there are other folks out there who remain more "silent" on the topic of caring for others, I think, more out of uncertainty of what to do, or fear, or being thrust into the care giving position beyond their control; as in, they didn't choose to be in that position but rather the circumstances chose them. And care giving is exhausting and overwhelming, to say the least! I've found all of this out recently, unfortunately. At the moment, I'm uncertain of the future, for the person who needs my care and myself. The person who needs my care has early stage dementia and is very frustrated by their condition and limitations. And I'm being tested many times daily of how to respond to this person. I'm keeping this person's identity anonymous here as it's no one's concern here. At this point, I feel inadequate to handle this care giving responsibility. But I don't have a choice. So, I have to put my adult pants on, roll up my sleeves, don't complain because I'm not the one who needs help....or am I? After all is said and done, I'll probably need a sedative! 😄