This is a good plan - put yourself first. I know you said you like fun guys - I guess that’s quite a broad category - but maybe in your heart you know these guys cease to be fun after a while; let you down, hurt you, don’t support you.

I guess the question is, would a guy you class as being fun be there when you need them, be with you in a crisis, sit with you in ER, understand when you hit rock bottom and still sit by your side, do his share of the chores with you, think about what you want to do and what you like to do, talk to you about the things you’re interested in. If the answer is no, then maybe fun guys aren’t the answer.

You know this though - I think you will be fine.