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Originally Posted by comrademoomoo
Oh no, what have I done? Why did I say all that unpleasant and aggressive stuff? I thought I had worked through these hostile parts sufficiently enough that I don't have to push for a fight in those same old ways. I guess I have more work to do. The danger is that I threaten our work when I behave like this and then I have shot myself in the foot because there is work to be done and no one there to work with me. It's ridiculous. I am ridiculous. Trying to argue with you about something that my ex-therapist said years ago is nonsensical even by my standards.
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Dunno if it helps, but a lot of my latest therapy was about what my exT said years ago. My T took it rather well and assured me it's definitely not ridiculous for it to take that long to get over etc. Granted, I hardly ever felt the need to attack her, and very rare times I did she set very firm boundaries around it while still engaging with the core problem.
