Haha yes, sounds familiar.

Of course, for us there was the problem of some things being very hard to bring up in session at all, let alone discuss in detail. So I posted a lot of stuff on message boards that I really wanted to send her, like 'look here, this is what I want you to know, if you'd only listen when I try telling it in session'. Very little of that stuff did I actually get the chance to tell her (or did I feel she heard what I was telling her).