I will add that yes, he is scared of going too fast. I understand that and I will respect his boundaries. Even so, I don’t like playing games. He tells me i make him horny and he wants to have sex with me. And yet, every time we plan for a night together, he bails. I would just appreciate it if he came clean with me. Every day I initiate our texting conversations by asking him how he is and what’s new, etc. I really feel I need to figure some things out with this, so today I’m laying off.