Thanks for your answer.
I'm genuinely looking for some insight.
I'm trying to address what my input is -what my part is in this issue. The following is just an example of what I mean and is what prompted me to put the general question up here for discussion : I think I'm going to have to change my sponsor because even though I'm speaking to her as a sponsee asking for guidance which I'm open to. Our last communication I've had with her has been a sign that I'm going to have to rethink our relationship because her communication to me was generalized passive-aggressivity and death by insinuation so I can't really address it which is not good for my mental health. I've also looked into if I'm being too sensitive but as I wrote, it's been happening a lot in my general interaction with women so there's something up.I'm trying to understand.