oh no @Fluttrbye this sounds like a lot to handle. I would check with support organizations like Alzheimer Association and or local Senior Center to talk to social worker to get local resources.

I have some experience with dementia people but not violent and aggressive. You need a safety plan if this gets out of hand like calling emergency services.

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