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Old Jan 14, 2025, 02:33 PM
bigal838 bigal838 is offline
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Thank you very much for your feedback.
I appreciate it!!

" Can you talk to your group of friends? "

It's pretty much just two women that have been ignoring me and acting as though I'm not even there (even though I was sitting right next to Her Idol at the time she was talking to her).
I think that I could talk to one of them about this, but would have to word it very carefully so that I'm not misunderstood and I don't end up getting a negative reaction from her.
The other woman has a reputation of being rude and inconsiderate, so I wouldn't even bother mentioning it to her. She would most likely get mad at me and tell me: " Just deal with it, Alan!! "

As for not hanging out with them as often, that would probably be the worst thing I could do because if I were to tell my gf that I don't want to sit with those women anymore when we're all at the same nightclub, I'm afraid that she would respond with something like:
" Well, what makes you think that YOU get to decide who we hang out with and who we don't?!! "

She might feel like I'm making her choose between me and her friends.
And I'm scared that she would maybe choose them over me and break up with me.