Dear RC,
Inspired by our conversations, I've often returned to Francis Weller's ingredients for dealing with grief:
- Slowly
- With warmth
- Judgment free
Your remark about me having a choice in this wasn't exactly judgment-free.
The last thing I want to do is impact you in discussing this, and I wish that you would let me know if I am.
My work with you feels important in terms of comprehending Steve's fears around coming out...and that feels significant in the context of his death.
Navigating another change in my support system soon, so I would like to continue speaking with you...as long as that's OK.
Take care,
Lost
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'Somewhere up above the great divide
Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few
A man can see his way clear to the light
'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin