I am a survivor of sexual and physical abuse. The sexual abuse was done by my own bio mom. It was when she was drunk touching me in the genitals in the worst way. There were times I could not sleep at night after it happened. It was over after I was removed from the home at age 9. I thought the abuse was over and it was with my 2nd wife after that. She beat the crap out of me sending me to the ER a few times. I did press charges and she did go to jail for domestic violence serving time for that. Finally I had enough and decided to file for divorce kicking her butt out 8 years ago. After the divorce was final, I was glad it was over. Things are great now. Have a loving wife I am married to for 5 and will be 6 years soon in my life that treats me right now.