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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Thank you for saying that. But I am not sure how he views this... me pursuing him that is. It's embarrassing if it annoys or bothers him or makes him feel worried or scared to come near me. I don't want to scare him off or denigrate myself in any way by being in such hot pursuit.. I did tell him yesterday that I am just looking to have fun and nothing more. He gave me a big thumbs up and a smiley, so I think that was OK.
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Yeah, I can understand this is a difficult one.
From the sounds of things, he's capable of deciding whether he does or doesn't want to be with you, and it's not like you're coercing him into a relationship.
It sounds like he knows how you feel about him, and so just go with the flow. If he keeps coming in and out of contact with you, then maybe he's not that serious. I guess it depends what you both want.
Maybe have an open conversation with him and then you'll have a better chance of knowing where you stand and what you both do and don't want. Too much of life is spent second guessing, because we are afraid to ask or take action - I'm 100% guilty of this, by the way :-)