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Old Jan 17, 2025, 06:51 AM
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Originally Posted by NovaBlaze View Post
Yeah, I can understand this is a difficult one.

From the sounds of things, he's capable of deciding whether he does or doesn't want to be with you, and it's not like you're coercing him into a relationship.

It sounds like he knows how you feel about him, and so just go with the flow. If he keeps coming in and out of contact with you, then maybe he's not that serious. I guess it depends what you both want.

Maybe have an open conversation with him and then you'll have a better chance of knowing where you stand and what you both do and don't want. Too much of life is spent second guessing, because we are afraid to ask or take action - I'm 100% guilty of this, by the way :-)
Well, I told him that I am not looking for anything more than just fun, so I think I've made it clear what I want and don't want. Between the lines, that says I don't want a relationship or anything serious. If I bring it up, I'm afraid he will think the opposite, which has been my experience in the past with some men.
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