Hello, and I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. In the other post, you mentioned you two are not too close, and this is always so hard to be at the crossroads of relationships.
The reason that people don't understand each other, is in their feelings for each other. No matter what happens, if you are not close, everything will be not great.
For me, it seems he didn't want to go to the bakery because you said you wouldn't eat this bread. Was he ready to go there for you? I decided so from your post.
For me, it's an indicator that a person wants to help, but he has so little energy, that he prefers the old bread if you don't want any. Many men don't know what to buy and you need to do a specific list of products.
Other husbands do the same often. Men are exhausted with such choices, especially when they work hard.