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eskielover · Jan 17, 2025, 09:41 PM

Hmmmm, sounds like you are just at a point nothing he does will please you. Not a criticism because I got to that point before I left my marriage.....just kinda noticing familiar behavior.

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Example: I tell husband we are having meatball parm sandwiches for dinner. Ask him to go buy some fresh bread. He asks “ok I should get no seeds, because you don’t like them- right?” I say: “Just get whatever you want, I probably won’t eat it.”

You asked him to go to the bakery but when he asked you to verify the kind of bread, you give him the answer that you probably won't eat it anyway when you are the one who told him what you were having for dinner & asked him to go to the bakery. Your answer was basically snarky.

That is an indication that you have had enough of whatever is going on in your marriage & at this point there may be nothing that can fix that....that is something only you know in your heart.

I know when I left my marriage he could have become the most perfect man in the world & I still would have hated him by that point. No one else could have truly known that was the point I had been pushed on more serious things than something like what kind of bread to buy.

It is important to know the foundational cause of why you are feeling this way & determine if that foundational cause is enough to cause you to end the marriage.