I just do not think I care a lick what happens to him any more. He does nothing to contribute to his own life, never mind mine or our son’s life. Silly things that, over time, as they keep happening, even though you communicate about it, and all the response you get back is: “nothing I do makes you happy.”
Example: I tell husband we are having meatball parm sandwiches for dinner. Ask him to go buy some fresh bread. He asks “ok I should get no seeds, because you don’t like them- right?” I say: “Just get whatever you want, I probably won’t eat it.” The trip to the bakery was then never made. It’s fine if he didn’t want the bread but…what do other husbands do in this situation- go buy the bread- right? Why can he not contribute this small part of the meal prep? He’s home today, not working. Not like I asked for a full weekly shopping trip, just go buy some fresh rolls. I am just so tired of this ****. I have other examples. Just finally had it, motivating me enough to try to lose weight and lose him. I don’t want to feel like this, but I do.