I don’t think you are bad at all.

In your last post you said “bread was for him and he didn’t comply with what i want”. So you want something specific for him to eat? It’s not very logical. Bread wasn’t even for you.

I think a better example would be if you are sick and have a high fever but he refuses to go to pharmacy to pick the meds. That would be an example of a jerk. I’d not want to be married to someone like that. Would he drive to get you meds if you are sick?