Thanks everyone! I know you are right, it just always stops me from posting in the detail that I would like to. But that’s just me , I find it very hard not to give all the details and it’s something I need to work on as I often feel bad afterwards for oversharing.
She knows all of the stuff already, it still just feels icky to think I could be recognised here.
Thank you for all the responses, I enjoyed reading everyone’s thoughts!