that is so true. i been told that over and over about pretty is inside of the person. but i feel the same way you do. at times when i look at myself i see nothing that others see. that happens for most of us. when we see our self we don't all ways see what others see. and that doesn't mean you are what you say you are. i know how you feel and i understand how you feel i been there and still are. it is hard to see yourself as others see you.