Hello Tinna,

The response from gordian_knot is very true. Guys want to fix what is wrong right away. Ive been with my boyfriend for 8 years and I have anger issues. So I snap very easily over the smallest things. He gets frusterated with me thinking that I dont notice what he does for me. He said, "No matter what I try to do to make it better, you still snap."

I dont think they realize that it is a process and there is no band-aid for it.

So you have been diagnosed with GAD,PSTD, ADD,and Bipolar II, that doesnt necessarily mean that things are going to change between the two of you. That may be what he is afraid of. After some time I think he will come around. Maybe try not to discuss it until he brings it up? Communication is very important. He did come back. He may just be processing and may be feeling frusterated because he wants to fix it and doesnt know how to.