Hardly anyone talks about the Pros and gifts of having BPD. I was sadly overdue for a diagnosis and finally got properly diagnosed with BPD six months ago, and am finally wrapping my head around some of the gifts it gives us as it sinks in:
-we are very nurturing
-we have a way of relating to everyone
-we could be good networkers/consultants given that (at least I) we can get stuff done through others.
-resilience
-able to draw from wide range of influences given the dissociative personalities that come and go.

I’m sure there are more but at least this gets me out of the rut of so many learning obstacles that are impossible for others without this condition to understand.