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Originally Posted by Toyotaman
There just doesn’t seem to be any accountability whatsoever. And I don’t think that it is possible to change her perception of reality. A reality where she might actually be at fault.
It is almost like an adult tantrum, the only difference is now after all the years married I won’t pander to it.
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I have to agree with your assessment. Sadly, many people like this can't/never change. It's just too deeply ingrained in the system. Boundaries help keep them in their lane, while giving you power within your own space and life, and that can lead to some better and more cooperative behaviors from them--- but too often, it doesn't change anything significantly on a deeper level.