Ok...so I'm 22yrs old...and tired of holding everything in. I was sexually, phsyically, and mentally abused by my father for 14yrs. To top things off...my mother let the abuse go on. Then after they broke up ...she became a drunk and would tell me how much she hated me..and how it was all my fault. She made me feel so worthless and unloved. I would beg her...please get me help! She would also tell me...I didn't need any help. Well I recently started treatment..and wrote my parents a letter (left it n the mailbox)...telling them how much...I am hurting and suffering. My father out of the picture...But my mother...called my sister up...(my sister swears she was never abused...she is also younger then me) My mother was mad...MAD...and still blaming me...why???