Quote:
Originally Posted by Toyotaman
Dear friends,
Earlier today my wife was out buying some supplies for her business, I got off work and drove the 50 minute drive to wait for our kid to get off school.
When I finally picked the kiddo up and arrived at home, my wife called me and asked if I could drive 20 minutes back out to pick up her prescription, I replied let me see if you have some medicine here, if not I’ll go and pick it up today. And if you do have some here I’ll pick it up tomorrow.
Wife’s response was ehh ok. We finished the call and I went and found that she had some of the medication at home. Probably 4 days worth, so I called her back to let her know. She didn’t answer and texted me back never mind.
I told her that I would pick it up tomorrow after work. She didn’t reply. An hour later she arrives at home, is storming around and I say hi, she says hello and continues aggressively and impatiently
Doing things.
And completely ignoring me.
My wife likes to use guilt or the silent treatment a lot. And I think that is what she is doing.
Was I being unreasonable saying I’d pick it up tomorrow, not wanting to go back out if she has enough medication at home?
Thanks for your responses.
|
No, you did nothing wrong. Sounds to me like you're in an abusive relationship and you take the bait that she brings to you, often making you feel guilty for nothing. She sounds very narcissistic. I'd be careful.