Hard to see the positives when it's ruined your life.
My family is estranged bc of the constant drama.
30 years married to the same man. 3 grown kids. 3 grandkids one in the way.
Had a rupture in the relationship with my husband. Kids got involved. Everyone says I'm dangerous. Never have been i raised them. Yet they weaponize with my grandchildren also.
So painful to live thru it once, then the core attachment wound rears up, rejection.
So hard when my husband still sees and communicates with them but won't help facilitate a reconcile.. " I didn't make this mess, you did. "
Currently in IOP 5x a week. Two therapy sessions weekly.
Been doing for 2.5 months.
CPTSD.BPD.DPDR.