Would you like to talk to someone here in PM? You are most welcome to write to me if you like, or if that would feel safer. Du kan skrive pa norsk hvis du vil heller. Jeg liker a snakke norsk. I'm sorry I didn't see your post the first time around, and I'm sorry that you still don't have someone you can trust where you live.

I'm a little bit familiar with Norway, and I understand that Norwegians believe in supporting children and preventing abuse. But I also know that there are some very small towns and isolated places where maybe there aren't many people to talk to. Do you live in a place like that? I wondered if maybe you are a little cut off from the world in the winter?

Maybe if you talk to your boyfriend he could think of someone you both could talk to together who you could trust. Families that abuse children keep to themselves and stay isolated on purpose. They are afraid of someone finding out, and afraid of having to change. They teach you not to trust anybody. You can break the cycle by telling someone what it is like for you, and getting some help for yourself and for your brothers.