Dear Abuser,
If it weren't for the abuse that you inflicted upon me I wouldn't have changed into the beautiful person that I am today. I am stronger. I have adapted more. I have learned to view the world and people differently than I have before the abuse took place. I have a tougher skin now. I have learned to let things roll off my back instead of taking everything to heart. I learned not to be too trusting. I realized that sometimes I should let people earn my trust instead of just giving it to them so easily. like the lyrics to one of my favorite songs by Andra Day Amen" I'm feeling like the velvet in a beat up guitar case." "Amen to all the people who have hurt me I'm stronger cause of them Amen". If it weren't for the abuse that I suffered at your hand I wouldn't have evolved into who I am today so I wouldn't change it . Because who I am is greater than who I was . You know there is a saying that a broken bone heals stronger than when it was ever broken and I believe that is true. I believe that I am stronger now that I have healed than I ever was before I was broken!