I don't know what your fights are about but if you bring up things that are troubling you I don't see anything wrong with that. Especially if it's important to you and the relationship. However, there may be better ways to bring up these things and there are new skills you can use. It's called assertiveness and there are courses and books on it. It's a way of communicating effectively without stepping on toes. Hope you'll stop back. CQ

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