I can also relate to you too, LT. L and I have talked some about what would happen if she died or was incapacitated in some way. We actually say if she was eaten by a bear as reference to her death. She went on a camping trip early in our relationship and I was afraid she would be eaten by a bear. So now it’s kind of a joke. She said her partner will be the one to inform me in an emergency. I’d probably go back to T for support. I asked if I could go to her funeral. I told her I would just stay with her partner. I don’t remember her response. I also asked her to keep a list of our items so I can get them back if something happened to her.

Sort of along the lines of poisoning… I was tempted last week to bring scissors in. I wanted to open something in her presence, but didn’t know if she had scissors. I decided to just open it at home. Figured it might look really bad to bring scissors to your therapy.