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discuss it with your therapist is a good idea. and you are not alone, my oldest triggers me. and i can't tell her because she would be very upset that it happens and then expect me to comfort her which would make it that much harder for me. perhaps you could have her father or one of her siblings talk to her about what she is doing to you? i have to have "daddy" calm mine down once in a while. i understand about the mother thing too. i have very limited contact with mine too.

children are difficult to deal with sometimes, even whrn they are "grown up". wish i could offer you more help on this. maybe your T will have some suggestions.

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