You can TRY constructive honesty, and you may think you are being gentle, or considerate or kind, or just questioning, but some folks will not appreciate it and will attack you, then block you.

There is a new member who is frankly a genius at diplomacy. The problem i see is, the comments do not scratch the surface of the OP's unawareness.

You know the joke - the lightbulb must WANT to change!