LT, make sure you have in writing about Dr. T going to your funeral. L and I have it in our contract. My fear, and maybe it’s just me because my people aren’t a huge fan of L, is that my family won’t allow L into the hospital if I have an emergency and won’t let her go to my funeral. In my contract with L, it says if anything happens, she can act as family: allowed in the hospital room and allowed to discuss anything with doctors and my family. Then I gave her the same permission for my funeral. That she can be there and talk to people. It would suck to go to a funeral and not be able to talk to anyone about anything because of confidentiality.