I'll have to pick that book up, there are LOTS concernig behavior that the usual discipline actions are not working. When he was about 2 and learning to communicate, he would get frustrated when I didn't understand him, so he would throw his whole body back and his head would slam on the ground hard. I was so worried about him, every method did not work from discipline to holding him. Finally I ignored this behavior (wouldn't even look at him when he did this) and he stopped (go figure). Our school system does have a pre-school program five days a week (half days of course). I also heard of a book that's called "Parenting with out screaming" (or something of that nature). I find myself yelling a lot, and I don't like it, it's ineffective anyway, but my natural instinct. Has anyone read this and is it worth picking up?

Thank you for your suggestions I will definetly put them into action.