@Blueberrybook:

I've never had a sexual experience with a woman either, but i suspect i am bi. It would be easier to have a relationship of equality with another woman, because there is not the wide gender gulf to constantly bridge. I find girl-on-girl porn very beautiful, but not SEXUALLY exciting, which probably means i'm het. There'd be so many advantages to partnering with a woman, tho, i think i could disregard the fact that the sex was erotic but not red-hot exciting. After my disastrous experience with my X, i'm looking to try a relationship with a woman, as i want to try something different than what i've tried in the past, since i've gotten such bad results with men. Men are sexy and all, but at 58, my desire for sex is not that strong. A relationship of equals would overwhelm any short-comings of the experience in the bedroom. Or kitchen. Or forest. Or rollecoaster!

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We're all posting picture of our artwork, so here is one of mine that i did in my teens when i was into visual art in a big way. It is a self-portrait of me as a toddler, drawn from a Polaroid my dad took. It came second in a survivor art contest. There was an uproar that it didn't get first prize. First prize when to an unremarkable abstract painting that had nothing to do with survivorship.