This is me tonight! 😭 I posted in relationships, but it was someone with BPD that had told me about Favorite Person. Could you please check out my thread and chat with me sometime? There or dm even. I'm really anxious about wanting a friendship with this woman (non romantic) so badly and fearing i scared her or will scare her off. My thought is unwarranted really, unless she gets triggered by a longer text, but i dunno. I have definitely been burned before, but i rhink this is just me overreacting right now. But it still sucks anyway. Maybe it's a bit ocd or adhd too, because it's not going like i want it to exactly. You know? The unknown and unplanned freaks me out. (I just realized this now) . But yeah, i really like this lady and want to be friends. Why is it hard? Lol

Edit btw, i Hope you're doing better in this regard. Oh and to answer more specifically, i seem to be drawn to the opposite. Like shy people. I'm actually the somewhat loud one. Maybe it is just an opposites attract thing? 🤷*♀️