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Originally Posted by Confused1991
Have you ever been in a relationship where you can literally feel a paun in your chests and then come the tears. How can one just switch off, i can not be hurting like this anymore. The smallest things set him off and living with his mom in the same house is not making it any easier. I can never do anything right, if i go and talk to him about it he looses his mind and gets angry, how does one just switch the emotions off just to survive.
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I am in this relationship now honey. Hang in there. I don’t have any other good advice to give. My latest example…husband had an event to go to today, I told him I needed to go for my walk, I started an exercise program and wanted to be consistent. Of course he doesn’t come home until it’s dark. I am not going walking in the dark. I am not going walking in the mall by myself - I do not feel safe. I had to stay home all day with my sick adult son (AUTISM/CYSTIC FIBROSIS/EPILEPSY). Told my husband when he came home - “DO YOU EVER ONCE THINK ABOUT ME?” Then he comes home, eats leftover dinner from fridge, never cleans up after himself. He leaves half plateful of food on counter. He goes downstairs and falls asleep. Food will remain on the counter until the morning, I hope it develops a deadly bacteria and he eats it.