I never had much of a relationship with my father after puberty. Before that I was his Tom boy and it was easy for him. But he was a man’s man from the greatest generation. Pretty stoic. Then when mental illness hit at 25 he couldn’t deal. Blamed my ex husband and cut me off. I had no relationship with him the last 10 yrs of his life. He died pretty young, 63. It’s sad.
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Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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